Author: Bill

  • ALL GAIN, NO PAIN Morning Ritual

    When I asked readers to offer up an example of their favorite or most useful part of ALL GAIN, NO PAIN, I never expected this. Not only is this a great example of a morning ritual that sets the tone for success, it’s amazingly creative.

    Give it a watch!  It’s a perfect way to start your Friday!

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  • Dr. House + The Batman, Anchors, and Triggers

    Dr. House + The Batman, Anchors, and Triggers

    On the weekends, The Gorgeous One and I will sit quietly and read for a few hours together with 70’s greatest hits playing the in the background. Every once in a while, a song comes on that triggers a fond memory of my childhood. I never realized how many of those songs I know quite well and certainly never appreciated to the degree I do now.
     
    Back before most of you were born, I used to be a certified hypnotherapist (I saw a lot of headache patients and thought it would help) which is probably why I find meditation such a powerful tool in your personal toolbox. One of the techniques I would use were called anchors. This could be a touch to a point on the body, often your sternum (close to your heart and key area related to the mechanics of breathing), that, much like a hit from the 70’s, would trigger a reminder or a specific thought to bring you into the present moment. When dealing with behavior change or pain, it can separate you from the self-limiting thoughts that you may perceive as a barrier to the new behavior.
     
    I still use anchors to get my head in the right space for a particular activity (it’s all about the rituals). Before I study, I listen to a particular song, Teardrop by Massive Attack. I borrowed this idea from my friend, Eric. It was the theme song from the TV show, House. We both enjoyed the TV character Dr. House (based on Sherlock Holmes) and work toward developing a broad knowledge base (House always had an answer) to make better decisions in our work. No one is smarter than Dr. House except maybe The Batman (House + Batman = The Goal).
     
    My point is that you can use an anchor anytime during the day to bring you back to reality, to recognize the moment, to regain control of your emotions or make a better decision to support your fitness goals or change your behavior for the better.
     
    The obstacle is just perception standing in your way. Maybe it’s a song, a phrase, or a simple tap on your sternum. You control your reaction to every situation. Just remind yourself.
     
    Your comeback starts today.
  • What’s Your Favorite Part of ALL GAIN, NO PAIN

    My month-to-date report shows that over 52,000 pages of ALL GAIN, NO PAIN have been read. I’m truly thankful that so many are finding the book helpful. We all have different needs and will find different concepts in the book of benefit. Here’s one example of how mindfulness impacts all other aspects of the program and life. Thanks for sharing your thoughts C. C.

    Now, what is your favorite part of the book or the concept you find most beneficial?

  • Get Outside for Your Health

    Saturday workout:

    Goal:  Build capacity

    10 Kettlebell swings on the minute x 10 minutes (outside!)

    30 minutes at 8% grade on the treadmill (using the Talk Test to monitor intensity)

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  • Learning (AKA Behavior Change) Occurs at the Point of Struggle

    Learning (AKA Behavior Change) Occurs at the Point of Struggle

    I recently had a patient who was also managing recovery from PTSD (post-traumatic stress disorder). As part of his recovery program, he was prescribed exercise and meditation. I had to smile as this may be the most brilliant of prescriptions on many levels and for many reasons, not mention that it reinforces the No Pain Principles from ALL GAIN, NO PAIN. These two activities may be the most underutilized and powerful “drugs” we have at our disposal to make the changes necessary to restore our self-regulation and change our lives for the better.

    He mentioned how frustrated he gets while doing his meditation that his mind drifts to random thoughts and pull him away from focus on his breathing.

    “Excellent!” I said.

    He cocked his head to the side with a confused look much like when I’m reading to my dog and he looks at me and wonders what I’m trying to convey. (don’t ask)

    “That’s exactly what’s supposed to happen. It’s not just your ability to hold your focus on your breath, but rather, your ability to recognize when you’ve lost focus and to bring yourself back to the moment. Back to the breath.”

    “It’s supposed to be hard,” I said. “Changing the brain should be difficult and challenging. Learning occurs at the point of struggle.”

    “Oh? Now, I get it,” he said as he began to smile too.

    Why do you think changing your behavior for the better is so difficult and challenging?

    Because it’s supposed to be.

    If it was easy to make changes, the changes would never stick.

    If it was easy, our attention and efforts would be constantly pulled in this direction or that direction with no real progress begin measured. No positive change. Busy but nothing to show for it.

    The next time your faced with a behavior changing decision, recognize it. Smile. Revel in the fact that you’re about to make a favorable change that will enhance your future self.

    Each time you exercise your “decision muscle” and make the best choice, it gets easier. This spills over into every aspect of your lift, too, by the way. These are new connection in your brain that get stronger with use.

    So, the next time you struggle, know that probably doing it right, and you’re about to make a change for the better.

    Quick Advice:

    Have a strategy or a plan in place before the tough decisions come.

    Missing too many workouts?

    Join a gym that’s on your way home from work and take your workout clothes with you every day.  Better yet, go to bed earlier, get up earlier and get your workout in before work.

    Prepare your meals ahead of time and store them in the fridge, so they’re ready when it’s time to eat.

    Missed your morning meditation? Take the first 10 minutes of lunch time and get it done.

    Embrace the struggle!

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